As I venture on my new journey to talk about existence, I want you to think of Godot. Some of you might have waited for him in their college classroom where a teacher and Beckett told us to know that “nothing had changed, nothing would change” except for our wait for Godot.
I remember when I first held the “book” in my hands, Waiting for the text to get over and understand the mystery of who Godot was? When would he come? Why were we even waiting for him? Was he God?
I got no answers except for the last one. Bless! Beckett for that, he himself cleared the air by stating that if he wanted his readers to think of Godot as “God” then he would have mentioned God not Godot. So, it was clear that Beckett wanted us to wait for Godot. The purpose of the text was to wait for Godot, who never turns up physically. His presence could be felt yet not seen just like the wait we keep on patiently doing , without even knowing if the person we are waiting for will ever turn up or not!
Unaware of its depth I thought the text doesn’t made sense. Ironically today, “Godot” is symbol of “purpose” for me. Beckett knew that even waiting needs a purpose. Whether someone comes or not doesn’t matter, The purpose of waiting is known in the heart of the person who performs the act. The Purpose being an energy acting as reinforcement for us to keep doing something again and again and again until we just either gets it or lose the hope of getting it.
So, dear readers , if you are waiting for someone and others keep on telling you that it’s of no use, remember that the purpose of that “waiting” is only known to you .. no one will get it except you. And in your heart you will always find the right way to pursue what you truly wish for.
It a began with my counsellor's words echoing in my ears, LET IT GO, LET IT GO!
I took a rollercoaster ride in past, And Learnt that choosing myself over this relationship isn't being self centred ,
It doesn't mean I wasn't in love , didn't trust or wasn't happy for the time being. It just mean that I am a human being, who can't hold onto past memories anymore, can't let them deepen my wound every day with the hope it will soon be okay! I know it won't.
I am a mere human being who has decided to let you go, Because We aren't meant to be... And the thought was killing my conscience, my inner self to this extent that I wanted freedom from myself.
So, By choosing to protect me, I am choosing to let everything go that belongs to you. I am putting an end to this emotional abuse and suffering.
I am ending it with my words. I AM LETTING YOU GO.
It seems to me that a sickness has gripped me. I have become part of a spiral where thoughts come and then bead by bead the spiral keeps on increasing , layer by layer to a point from where I fail to find the beginning.
My brain has stopped taking this, the pressure, the pain, the suffering I go through in each moment when I should be resting and I have become reckless with my memories.
Memories of yesterday,today and coming tomorrow . Why? You ask me why?
Because it's unbearable to be in the limelight and pretend to be alright. Not being able to scream out, show your joy, sorrow, anger,hurt and pain.
Fear grips the heart yet the smile doesn't flicker. Do you know how that happen?
Practice . Practice. Practice.
But it's enough. I am exhausted and I sincerely hope for the earth to stop moving and my ethics to stop talking .
Thermometer flashed 103, looks like The fever has reached the core. The body shivers,mind enveloped with the question why? Yesterday, you danced like there was no tomorrow until you realised there aren't going to be any more tomorrows with him.
Today, Grief has made her sick.
Sadness lingering in her mind has finally found a way to reach her bones.
It's strange the doctor said, grief could make you lose your strength.
Get well soon her agony said, mocking her with a big smirk.
If strength was a human It would look like you. Not fierce but patient in its demeanor With a radiating smile on those parched lips, Calmly waiting for its turn to showcase its face, hidden behind the veil of unknown.
If strength was a human It would surely look like you. Unapologetically generous in its attitude, With a capability to drown your lingering nightmares and inhibitions.
Aren’t you happy with this?
Should I shift my focus from it to you ? I see a movement in strength, And I see you moving with it.
How did it happen? The veil is undone..
I would like to apologise now, I have made incorrect comparison Who would have thought? Strength doesn’t look like you But you are it!